Option A, $$aRb$$ if $$a+b$$ is an even integer.
Let $$a, b,c \in I$$
Clearly, $$a+a =2a$$ is an even integer.
Hence, $$aRa$$ for all $$a\in I$$
Now, let $$aRb$$
$$\Rightarrow a+b$$ is an even integer.
or $$b+a$$ is an even integer.
$$\Rightarrow bRa$$
Next, let $$aRb, bRc$$
$$\Rightarrow a+b $$ in an even integer and $$ b+c$$ is an even integer
$$\Rightarrow a$$ and $$b$$ both are even or both are odd . Also, $$b$$ and $$c$$ both are even or both are odd.
Hence, if $$a$$ and $$b$$ are even .So $$c$$ is also even . Hence, $$a+c$$ is even.
And if $$a$$ and $$b$$ are odd.So, $$c$$ is also odd . Again $$a+c$$ is even.
Hence, $$aRc$$
Hence, option A is equivalence relation.
Option B, $$aRb$$ if $$a-b$$ is an even integer.
Let $$a, b,c \in I$$
Clearly, $$a-a =0$$ is an even integer.
Hence, $$aRa$$ for all $$a\in I$$
Now, let $$aRb$$
$$\Rightarrow a-b$$ is an even integer.
or $$-(a-b)$$ is also an even integer.
$$\Rightarrow \ bRa$$
Next, let $$aRb, bRc$$
$$\Rightarrow a-b $$ in an even integer and $$ b-c$$ is an even integer
$$a+c=a-b+b-c=$$ even+even
Hence, $$a+c$$ is even.
Hence, $$aRc$$
Hence, option $$B$$ is equivalence relation.
Option C $$aRb$$ if $$a<b$$
Let $$a, b,c \in I$$
Clearly,symmetry does not hold here
Now, let $$aRb$$
$$\Rightarrow a<b$$
But it does not implies $$b<a$$
Hence, option C is not an equivalence relation.
Option D, $$aRb$$ if $$a=b$$
Let $$a, b,c \in I$$
Clearly, $$a=a$$
Hence, $$aRa$$ for all $$a\in I$$
Now, let $$aRb$$
$$\Rightarrow a=b$$
or $$b=a$$ is an even integer.
$$\Rightarrow bRa$$
Next, let $$aRb, bRc$$
$$\Rightarrow a=b $$and $$ b=c$$
$$\Rightarrow a=b=c$$
Hence, $$aRc$$
Hence, option D is equivalence relation.